PATTERN REVIEW
A full-system pattern map for recurring breakdowns.
Some problems don’t live in one situation or one decision.
They repeat.
Across relationships.
Across work.
Across money, family, authority, and rest.
A Pattern Review is for moments like that.
When the same pattern keeps showing up everywhere
You might recognise this:
- Different people, same dynamic
- You keep overfunctioning even when you promise yourself you won’t
- Boundaries work briefly, then collapse under pressure
- Relationships follow the same arc, no matter who they’re with
- Money behaviour doesn’t match your values, even when you understand the logic
- You feel responsible for stabilising situations that aren’t yours
- You’re exhausted, but nothing looks “wrong” on paper
This isn’t coincidence.
And it isn’t personal failure.
It’s a systemic pattern organising your behaviour across contexts.
What a Pattern Review does
A Pattern Review maps the full architecture shaping how you move through systems.
It shows you:
- the governing pattern you’ve been living inside
- where it originated and how it propagated
- how it reproduces across relationships, work, money, and family
- what pressure it places on your body, decisions, and boundaries
- what effort will never resolve it
- the stabilising conditions that change how the system responds
This is not insight about a moment.
It’s visibility into the system.
What changes after a Pattern Review
People often notice:
repetition finally makes sense
guilt loosens its grip
responsibility returns to its rightful place
boundaries hold without force
relationships simplify without confrontation
money decisions stabilise
energy stops leaking
decisions feel quieter and more grounded
Not because life becomes easy.
But because you’re no longer responding from architecture you didn’t choose.
How the Pattern Review works
This process is written, contained, and deliberately non-interactive.
1
Structured written intake
You complete a detailed intake covering key systems in your life:
- relationships and family
- work and authority
- money and responsibility
- boundaries and rest
No storytelling.
No emotional processing.
Just information.
2
Private system mapping
I analyse the material off-call, in quiet.
I trace:
- repeating relational roles
- pressure transfer points
- incentive and avoidance loops
- survival logic
- stabilising failures
This work happens without you present.
3
Written Pattern Map delivered within 30 days
You receive a comprehensive document that includes:
- the governing pattern
- how it reproduces across systems
- the consequence path if nothing changes
- where effort has been misdirected
- the stabilising conditions that interrupt the pattern
There is no call.
No walkthrough.
No advice.
The work is complete when the pattern is legible.
What this is not
To keep the work clean:
- This is not therapy
- This is not coaching
- This is not mentoring or advice
- This is not emotional processing
- This is not implementation
The Pattern Review exists to surface structure, not to manage change.
What you leave with
- A clear map of the pattern governing your life
- Language for what you’ve been inside all along
- Relief without collapse
- Authority without aggression
- Boundaries without justification
- A written map you can return to over time
Many people describe this as the moment their life finally made sense.
Ready to See the System You’ve Been Living Inside?
One governing pattern.
Clear stabilising conditions.
No more guessing.
$4,800
This reflects the depth of system mapping involved, not time spent in conversation.